It’s time to have the best sex & relationships of your life.

And I’m damn good at delivering on that.

I’ll help you turn your pain, shame, trauma and past into power, pleasure, security and purpose.

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What’s really getting in the way of having the best sex & relationships of your life?

The problem you think you have is almost never the problem you actually have. Take this quiz to discover what’s really going on and get a personalized plan to overcome sex & relationship challenges so you can have the best time of your life.

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Hello beautiful human, I’m Jess.

As a certified sex and relationship coach and a Master Practitioner of NLP, I specialize in helping people break painful patterns in love, sex, and self-worth—without years of talk therapy.

My work blends subconscious reprogramming, nervous system tools, and somatic experiencing to create fast, lasting change.

Certified Sex & Relationship Coach NLP Master Practitioner M.A.

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What’s Getting in the Way of Having the Best Sex & Relationships of Your Life?

Find out what’s really going on.

You’re well aware of the surface problem.

“We have the same argument over & over…” “They betrayed my trust…” “I can’t initiate sex…”

But this quiz will show you what’s underneath all that. Fix that issue, and your sex and relationships just leveled the f*ck up.

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Practice bundles

Micro-practices to rewire your patterns

I want tools I can use on my own, tonight.

Pick the bundle for what you’re working on:

Feel Safe During Sex
Get Out of Your Head During Sex
Stop Losing Yourself in Relationships
Break the Beliefs About Sex You Were Taught
Heal the Trauma Your Body Is Still Holding
Have Better Sex

$27 each, or all six for $97 $162

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I want a full transformation.

I offer 1:1 coaching for people who’ve tried everything to break free from frustrating thought and behavior patterns—especially those rooted in anxiety, insecurity, or relationship struggles.

Build your own level of support over 6 months, the perfect span to see powerful results and lock in change.

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What changes when the real problem gets solved

When you change the root problem… this is what happens.

Reviews on Google

“Working with Jess completely transformed my relationship with my body, pleasure, and intimacy. I came into this work carrying a lot of shame and feeling disconnected from myself, but Jess created such a safe and supportive space for growth. Her approach helped me shift deeply rooted patterns and build a much stronger sense of confidence and self-trust. The impact has been life-changing, both personally and in my relationships, and it’s even inspired me to launch my own pleasure-focused business.”

Carolyn Durkee · Google review

“Jessica is amazing. It’s hard to put into words what a dynamic resource she is. What started out as a lighthearted engagement to talk about some intimacy issues I was navigating evolved into much deeper work investigating all the layers and phenomena that affect my self-image and confidence in relationships. I’m forever grateful to have had such a safe, trusting, and open dialogue with Jessica through a very difficult time in my life. She genuinely saw me and gave me tools to rebuild a freer version of myself.”

Nathaniel Muhler · Google review

“I have a more secure relationship with myself and that has translated to having more secure relationships overall. I’ve been able to be more vulnerable with my partner, communicate more effectively, and experience the deepest, most profound love of my life.”

Relationship Coaching Client

“I had the pleasure to have a 90 minute session with Jessica after being magnetized to her beautifully witchy booth at a market. Our session was comforting as well as impactful. Her approach was what someone who doesn’t like the drawn-out therapy tactics dream of. Potent, heart centered, and confronting in the best of ways. … I would 100% recommend Jessica as the real deal <3”

Kinsey Rose · Google review

“Jess has helped me reach a new level of security I haven’t felt before. I feel empowered after our sessions and never judged during them.”

Julia Harryman · Google review

“Oh man, that lead with your hips exercise snaps me right into my power. I have been feeling really tapped into that divine, empowered sensual state, and I think it shows up unapologetically in my day-to-day. I am finding it fun to dress up and look good every day, just because. I’m loving it.”

Coaching client

“Being able to work through Voxer during the week has saved me as I break habits of wanting to contact my ex. I can’t imagine going through this alone. I feel hopeful that my next partnership will be healthier and very meaningful.”

Breakup Alchemy client

“Now, having completed the program, I create boundaries, I check in with myself, and I meditate when I need to self soothe. I audit and uproot beliefs that don’t resonate with my self care.”