Magick came to me before I even had words for it. As a young child, I was naturally drawn to the unseen forces around me, working with energy and intuition in ways that felt as natural as breathing. As I grew older, I began studying formal magickal traditions—Wicca, Hermeticism, Tarot—seeking structure for what had always been an innate gift.

There's an entry in my high school diary where I wrote that my calling was to be a teacher or a psychologist. I had no idea then that I'd eventually become both, blended into one role as a coach and Headmistress of the Conservatory of Magick.

But the path to sex and relationship coaching wasn't linear. After years in marketing and copywriting, I found myself in what I can only describe as a long dark night of the soul. I knew what I was doing wasn't aligned, but I had no idea what was calling me forward.

Then came the psychedelic experiences that changed everything. In those expanded states of consciousness, I received a crystal-clear revelation: sex was my superpower. Not just in how I experienced pleasure, but in who I became during intimate connection—the most authentic, powerful version of myself emerged through erotic expression.

I realized that if I could access this depth of authenticity and power through sexuality, others could too. And in a world where our sexuality is so heavily shamed, repressed, and oppressed, I saw this as where I could have the most transformational impact.

Now I get to weave together both sides of my calling—the ancient wisdom of elemental magick and the revolutionary act of reclaiming erotic power—helping people step into their full authenticity through practices that honor both the mystical and the sensual.

I work with people like you, who are accomplished in many areas of their lives, but they've settled in relationships or aren't having the pleasure experiences they want and are done pretending like this is "just the way things are."

You're smart, successful, and you've done the work—therapy, workshops, self-help. From the outside, your life looks together. But when it comes to intimacy, you've been accepting less than what you truly desire.

You're haunted by past patterns and traumas, and no matter how much therapy you've done, you haven't been able to talk about sex and pleasure in a way that has radically released you from the old ways of being.

You're ready for an approach that works with both the psychological and the mystical, and you're done settling for a mediocre intimate life.

The modalities I draw from are designed to help you self-resource your healing from your body and intuition—you are the medicine. Using NLP, somatic experiencing, and guided visualization, we work from the premise that your body already knows what you need.

I don't need to have solved your exact problem before, because I'm not the one providing the solutions—you are.

My role is to ask you the ripe questions that guide you deeper into your self-knowing and elicit what you need to achieve your goals and desires. If it sounds like magick, it's because it is.

My clients have voiced that they can talk to me about things they've never talked about with a therapist. Because of the nonjudgmental space I provide, my personal experiences in polyamorous and kink dynamics, my training in sex and long backgroudn in coaching, and the fact that I'm not here to diagnose or pathologize but rather coach—like a sports coach—into better practices for your body to be able to think, believe, feel, and ultimately do differently.

This works much faster than therapy, and comes with emotional magick that you likely haven't experienced before.

You're curious, self-aware, and smart—perhaps you already have an interest in mysticism and spirituality. You dedicate time to put effort into the practices, because those really make an impact on how far and fast this style of coaching can take you.

You lean into magickal thinking and ritual appeals to you—lighting candles feels meaningful, working with moon phases excites you, and you understand that intention and ceremony can create profound shifts. You're drawn to the idea that your healing can be sacred, that transformation can happen through more than just talking, and that your body holds ancient wisdom waiting to be awakened.

Please know I'm very selective in who I work with, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren't suited for my programs and won't get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn't be fair to them.)

I don't work with people looking to learn NLP techniques to manipulate others into liking them (think "The Game" mentality), or people who are looking for sex work.

Another type of person I won't work with (without exception) is the individual who consistently makes excuses or challenges every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We'll probably just not work well together and I wouldn't want you to waste your time or money. Fair?

My programs are designed to help you awaken your inner power and develop stronger self-trust, intuition, and skills that apply to any area of your life—whether that's sex, relationships, money, breakups, or stepping into your most aligned identity. This means we will help you identify and transform the patterns keeping you stuck, asking questions about where these patterns come from, whether they're serving you, and what new ways of being you want to embody instead.

So, how do we do that? My programs will help you to understand and embody:

• How to stay present in your body instead of dissociating or going into old reactive patterns

• The difference between authentic desires and conditioned responses

• How to communicate your needs without shame, manipulation, or apology

• The way trauma and conditioning show up in your nervous system and daily life

• How to use somatic experiencing, visualization, and energy work to regulate and expand your capacity

• Why ritual and ceremony can accelerate transformation in any area

• How to trust your intuition and set energetic boundaries

• How to identify and reprogram limiting beliefs using NLP techniques

• How to cultivate magnetic confidence and self-worth from the inside out

• How to work with your body's wisdom to create lasting change

In short, my programs help you build your own internal toolkit of resources and power that you can apply to transform any area of your life.

Yes! A resounding yes! The result of our work is a deeper sense of your own inner power and self-trust, so that you can create the life and relationships you actually desire. I have seen so many clients transform their lives, both inside and out, as a result of our work together. See the Client Testimonials page to see more of their stories.

If you work with me, you can expect to feel more grounded in your power, more connected to your body's wisdom, and clearer about what you actually want in every area of your life. My clients say they stop second-guessing themselves, feel confident expressing their authentic selves, and finally trust their inner guidance without needing external validation.

Here are the kinds of results you can expect:

• You'll develop unshakeable self-trust and stop seeking approval from others

• You'll learn how to feel your feelings instead of fighting or avoiding them

• You'll feel more present in your body and connected to your pleasure and power

• You'll create healthy boundaries and check in with yourself regularly

• You'll transform limiting beliefs about money, relationships, and your worthiness

• You'll make decisions from alignment—not from fear, guilt, or obligation

• You'll navigate breakups and transitions with grace and self-compassion

• You'll step into your most aligned identity without apology

• You'll address jealousy and insecurity from the root instead of managing symptoms

• You'll communicate your needs clearly without manipulation or people-pleasing

• You'll stop hiding who you really are and begin showing up authentically

• You'll reframe negative experiences and find empowering meanings in your story

• You'll feel magnetic confidence that shows up "unapologetically in your day-to-day"

• You'll learn to work with your nervous system instead of being hijacked by it

• You'll gain clarity on major life decisions and feel at peace with your choices

• You'll experience "what it is to lean into the pleasures of being alive"

One client put it perfectly: "I felt more strength within my own unique experience, clarity in my navigation, and joy." Another said: "You sew, I bloom."

I've seen clients radically shift their patterns after a single session. As one client said, "I've done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I've always yearned for." While this work may go quickly, the 6-month container is designed so that the richness of this magick can unfold over time.

When you're working with years of ingrained patterns and trauma, traditional therapy can take decades because it primarily works through talking and understanding. We accomplish so much more because we're working directly with your nervous system and subconscious mind through somatic practices, NLP, and energy work—bypassing the thinking mind that keeps you stuck in analysis and instead creating new neural pathways and embodied experiences.

While I can't guarantee specific outcomes, many clients report that the investment in themselves leads to profound shifts in every area of their lives—relationships, career, self-worth, and overall fulfillment. The value of this work goes beyond any single result—it's about reclaiming your power and creating a life that feels authentic and alive.

That said, how much is feeling magnetic in your own skin, having passionate relationships, trusting your intuition completely, or finally breaking free from patterns that have held you back for years worth to you? What is it costing you to stay where you are?

I offer two options for working together:

1. The High-Touch Ritual Coaching Container (12 months) This is for you if you're ready to make major shifts across all areas of your life and want the most support and personalization.

Over the course of one year, you'll get weekly 75-minute one-on-one sessions where we work with whatever is most alive for you—whether that's relationships, money blocks, career transitions, or deeper spiritual awakening.

We'll use guided visualizations, somatic experiencing, energy clearing, NLP reprogramming, and personalized rituals designed specifically for your healing journey. You'll also receive unlimited Voxer and email support between sessions, so you have consistent guidance as you integrate this work into your daily life.

This programs includes personalized rituals and practices to do between sessions, and we may even create ritual experiences together during our calls when it serves your transformation.

This is where we get to create absolute magick together—the depth and consistency of weekly sessions allows for profound, lasting transformation that ripples into every area of your existence.

The investment is $1,222/month.

2. Sex Love Magick (6 months) This focused container is specifically designed to transform your relationship with sexuality, intimacy, and erotic power.

We meet twice monthly for 12 sessions total, diving deep into the patterns that keep you disconnected from pleasure and authentic connection.

You'll receive the same level of support—personalized practices, unlimited Voxer/email access, and the full range of modalities including guided visualizations, somatic experiencing, energy clearing, and NLP reprogramming—but focused specifically on reclaiming your sexual sovereignty and magnetic confidence.

The investment is $695/month.

Yes! I've been working with some clients since the very beginning of my coaching journey! Some continue to re-up for years because the work keeps deepening and evolving as they do.

Our sessions are a blend of deep conversation, somatic exploration, and pure magick. You'll share what's most present for you, and I'll ask the questions that guide you into your own inner knowing.

I create an absolutely non-judgmental space where you can talk about things you've never said out loud, while I deeply and actively listen and witness.

We might do guided visualizations that take you into profound altered states, somatic practices that help you feel safe in your body again, energy work that clears what's ready to be released, or NLP processes that rewire limiting beliefs on the spot.

You may experience breakthroughs, emotional releases, energetic shifts, or moments of pure embodied power.

I follow your nervous system and my intuition, creating personalized rituals and practices that feel like they are made just for you in that moment, because they are.

If you decide you want to work with me, we will confirm that “yes!” with a non-refundable deposit of one half of the first month’s payment. After that, I’ll send you the paperwork, and you can decide if you want to pay for the remainder monthly or upfront for a small discount.

I accept credit and debit cards or ACH bank transfers. If you pay with a bank transfer, the 2% I save in processing fees will go to my Financial Access Fund.

If you have not yet done so, please book a Discovery Session with me on my calendar here.

At that call, you can ask any additional questions and we’ll determine if we are a good fit for working together. If we are, you can pay your deposit of one-half the first month’s payment to confirm, we’ll schedule your sessions, and I will send you to the paperwork you need to get started!

Absolutely! You can sign up for my Pleasure Alchemy emails to get a taste of my approach and receive bi-weekly missives as well as invitations to work with me in other ways, such as low cost or free webinars and through my elemental magick retreats.

Or join the Conservatory of Magick: a community of vibrant humans awakening their magick to heal, align, balance, and manifest using their own natural wisdom. Think coven-meets-classroom—it's where you can experience my teaching style and connect with like-minded souls for just $44/month.

The program will actually inject more spaciousness and less stress into your life rather than adding to your overwhelm. If you can commit to doing one practice per month outside of our sessions, that's just 2 hours per week total—and you'll get so much more out of the program.

The tools and nervous system regulation techniques we'll work with will help you move through life with more ease and presence, so you'll likely find yourself feeling less frantic and more grounded in your daily experience.

Perfect! The best thing to do is schedule a connection call with me to see if we're a good fit and determine which program will serve you best. You can book that here on my calendar.

If you have additional questions, just email me at jess@jessicaalfaqih.com and I'll be happy to talk through the options with you.

I'm so excited to witness your transformation and honored that you're considering me to guide you back to your power. Let's create some magick together!